Communication is a key.
It can be tricky to communicate your needs or have a sense you are being heard. Did you notice that we are all wired differently when it comes to communication styles? Let's explore together and pick main three for yourself and three for your parner. Have a play and practice how could you communicate one issue in three different ways.
1. The Playful One
Traits: Lighthearted, loves humor, enjoys spontaneity, and often prioritizes fun in conversations.
Approach: Keep the energy upbeat. Use humor, share playful anecdotes, and avoid overly serious tones unless necessary. Be mindful of their need for enjoyment, even in deeper discussions.
2. The Growth-Focused One
Traits: Values personal development, thrives on meaningful conversations, and seeks opportunities to improve or learn.
Approach: Be thoughtful and intentional in your communication. Share insights, ask thought-provoking questions, and respect their desire for deeper discussions about goals and challenges.
3. The Analytical One
Traits: Logical, detail-oriented, and focused on facts and problem-solving.
Approach: Be clear and concise. Provide evidence or reasoning for your points, and be prepared for questions. Avoid overly emotional arguments unless tied to a logical outcome.
4. The Empath
Traits: Deeply intuitive, sensitive to emotions, and values meaningful connections.
Approach: Be genuine and open. Show empathy and actively listen to their feelings. Avoid dismissing their emotional experiences, even if they seem subtle or indirect.
5. The Leader
Traits: Confident, assertive, goal-oriented, and often takes charge in discussions.
Approach: Respect their opinions and offer concise, solution-focused input. Be assertive without being confrontational, and acknowledge their leadership qualities.
6. The Listener
Traits: Quiet, reflective, and more comfortable observing than leading conversations.
Approach: Give them space to speak without pressure. Use open-ended questions to draw them out and show appreciation for their thoughtful contributions.
7. The Connector
Traits: Sociable, values relationships, and thrives in group settings.
Approach: Focus on shared experiences and collaborative discussions. Build rapport by showing genuine interest in their network or community connections.
8. The Free Spirit
Traits: Creative, independent, and values freedom in thought and action.
Approach: Embrace their ideas and explore their perspectives. Avoid rigid expectations and encourage their innovative thinking.
9. The Realist
Traits: Practical, grounded, and focused on achievable outcomes.
Approach: Be straightforward and realistic in your discussions. Avoid overly abstract or idealistic concepts that might seem impractical.
10. The Traditionalist
Traits: Values structure, predictability, and conventional approaches.
Approach: Respect their need for order and stability. Acknowledge traditions or routines that matter to them, and communicate with clarity and consistency.
